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The Baby Name Game

Posted on August 28, 2012 by RRMM

Choosing the name for a child is, in my opinion, sort of a big deal. When we were thinking about what we wanted to name our son (our first), I got really stressed about it. What if we choose the wrong name? What if it seems fine, but then once we get home and start using it, we hate it?

This is how your child who then becomes a youth then a teen, young adult, and then adult will be identified FOREVER.

FOR.EV.ER.

I want to be friends with this person.

A name can say so much about you and can end up defining parts of your life based on how it is used or nicknamed. You’re stuck with it (at least until your 18) and you can’t do anything about it.

  Yeah, no pressure.  

Yet, here we are, playing the name game again with our 2nd child, a little girl.

In my family, we have a tradition unintentionally started by my sister who had the first grandbaby to not reveal the name we choose until the baby is born. This is a good thing for a couple of reasons. Read More

Morality part 2 – Peer Pressure can be AWESOME

Posted on March 16, 2012 by joesuperdad

Note: This is part 2 of a 3 part series on helping empower teens to make moral decisions. The series introduction can be found here, and part 1 can be found here.

As you’re probably aware of by now, I’m a Catholic. It’s not just a fitting-in sort of label for me, like a 3rd generation 20% Irish-person around St. Patrick’s Day. (Yeah, I said that.) My being a Catholic is part of who I am, how I define myself, how I hope to portray myself. I strive for it to affect literally every part of my life – the fact that I fail constantly is irrelevant here. As I try to live out my faith and my identity as a Catholic, I am always on the lookout for that community of Catholics to share my life with – friends who share our faith, values and priorities. I want to know I’m not alone in my challenge, and I can be there to support and lift up others who are trying to navigate the narrow road. Having a community of Catholic men, women and families around us has been a humongous blessing & help to myself and my wife – and of course it is!

We all know how important friends are to teenagers. This is the time of life when teens are beginning to break from their family. They like to believe they are independent, but they are so, so far from real independence from family and parents. (see part 1 for how important adults are) A huge part of this break is the friends teens have. Teens quite often list friends as more important than family. This may or may not be the case – and that doesn’t really matter for this discussion – the apparent truth of it matters.